So, while on our Girls' Vacation... we all got new tattoos! Mom and Aunt J got hibiscus flowers on their shoulder, Sister got a tramp stamp of hibiscus flowers... and see below... my newest turtle addition. 
It really is quite amazing in person. So, thanks to Jarod at Farsyde Tattoo in Kauai, HI.
Yeah, he was pretty hot too. ;)
My Sister has decided that she's getting a divorce... and I'm devestated for my brother-in-law.
I always have thought that we was an angel to her... he's SUCH a good person. He's put up with a lot of crap over the 9 years of marriage (and two years of dating)... I mean, my Sister is HIGH maintenance, and at times TOO high maintenance.
And he was a trooper through it all.
She's decided that she's just not happy and can't continue to live her life that way.
I can't blame her for wanting to be happy. I WANT her to be happy. No one should live their entire live unhappy because they don't want to 'hurt someone else's feelings'.
I just don't know what a divorce is like... when there's not a 'bad guy'. My brother-in-law didn't 'do' anything wrong.
And so he's devestated... and my heart is just broken for him.
He's been my brother for almost 10 years... and now, he's supposed to be live evictecd from our family... it just doesn't seem right.
I cry each time I think about it... everytime he emails me... I'm also feeling guilty that I don't 'have time' to spend with him. Hell, he's invited me to dinner (I'm going) and we're not even going until NEXT Monday because I have to work or already have plans I can't really get out of.
I just feel horrible!
It may not be the best pic... I took it from my new MotoQ phone... I'll update when I get home with pics from the camera.
Aloha!
And the countdown begins...
I've been a bad, bad blogger lately. With working two jobs, a sister in the crazy house and just too much to do, I've been away.
But those who work hard... get to play hard too! In less than 24 hours, I will be on a plane... traveling to Kauai... to be in tropical heaven for 9 whole days.
I might just want to stay there.
